Friday, November 7, 2014

Walmart Supercenter's New Business Ethics Practice. You won't like it!

           
Picture are my own.
 My experience The New Walmart Supercenter and their kind of Business Ethics that are off of I-10 East Freeway and N. Highway 146.

           Hello Walmart Shoppers and Former Walmart Shoppers I wanted to inform you all of the events that are taking place in my life regarding right now with what I now call, The Walmart Super-theft-Center, which all started and took place on November 04, 2014, Tuesday at 19:04:35 (for those of you that do not know military time that is exactly, 7:04:35 P.M. they have their time stamped on the receipt in military time).

November 4, 2014
            My husband, our roommate and I went to this Walmart SuperCenter on 8700 N. Highway 146 in Baytown, TX 77523 with the intentions of getting only his medication and then leaving. While they went to the pharmacy, I went to the bathroom and then went to the electronics department to check out the computers one more time (we were there shopping the night before for a little bit of groceries) because I really wanted a smaller laptop or even a tablet to take to college with me because I was afraid I would end up breaking or cracking the screen of my big laptop which I bought at Walmart in Liberty, TX last year or the year before and because my roller carry-all was full to the maximum of college books and binders.
            I figured smaller portable computer would do the trick so that I could put it in my purse or satchel. That would be the best bet for me.  While I looked at quite a few of them I could not decide on which one to buy. There are so many. I decided that the $149.00 one would be good enough because it had the screen and the keyboard came with it that looked like, a flimsy flat keyboard.  I told the Walmart employee that was helping me out I was ready and I wanted that one. It was inexpensive enough and hopefully would last while I was in college and through my University time too.
            He told me he would send me help. I decided that while I was waiting for someone I would go look on the next isle once again.  I informed that Walmart employee of that. A little bit later the same employee came to assist me.  He and I both looked at the different little computers and I asked questions about them, he wasn’t sure either so we looked together at them.  I decided to change my mind and purchase the ASUS Transformer Book NoteBook PC T100T. So he unlocked and opened the cabinet doors underneath.  There were just a few in other computers there, maybe 3 or 4 items. So I asked him to look in the other set of cabinet doors.  He did, there was only one ASUS box under there. The Walmart employee seemed just excited as I was.  I told him I will take it.
            The Walmart employee carried it to the counter and I am happily following behind him.  He scanned it, I scanned my card through the card reader, he bagged it and I asked him to double bag it for me because I truly do not like to go through the exit door and have to stop show my receipt while the Walmart employee scans my receipt and looks through the bags of items I purchased. As you all know, they do that.  Most are pretty nice about it and I don’t mind but, it’s the rude ones that bother me and having to go through the drill of checking my receipt which it is very time consuming.  I don’t think many people like that concept either. Just think if all stores did that then less people would go shopping.  I think all the stores that don’t do it probably hear too much flap about the pains of Walmart doing it. Anyway, then the Walmart employee said that I could also pay for what else was in my basket there too.  I thought, “Well alright, I am on board with this.” So I paid for my remaining items there in the electronics department and I went happily on my way to the front.
            I decided to stop by the pharmacy department and see if my husband had picked his medication or not.  The Walmart employees behind the counter checked and said, “No, he did not.”  I told them that I would go ahead and purchase that for him.  After purchasing his medication I then walked to the hair salon place that was inside Walmart to see if my husband did go there too because I did tell him he should get his hair cut.  He was there along with the roommate.  The lady of the salon told me I could bring my basket in there and sit and wait while she finished up with my husband. So I did, and chit-chatted with a lady that was there sitting in one of the salon chairs at the right side of the salon and her son was sweeping up the hair off the floor.  The kid could not have been any more than 8 to 10 years old.  He was only wanting to help the hair dresser.  Little kids are good about wanting to help out.  I thought that was sweet of him and very thoughtful.  My husband was finished and we all were walking back to the truck well, I thought we all were.  My husband decided to go get some milk, our roommate informed me.  We sat outside in the truck and waited for him.  He was gone for a while.  I knew milk surely was not that hard to choose.  He likes whole milk and I like Borden’s or Promise Land milk. 
            While I was waiting, I had such a strong desire to open my box and start fiddling with my new little computer but, I decided to wait and leave it in the back of the suburban and fiddle, fiddle, fiddle with my new computer once I arrived home.  The whole time while waiting for my husband the thought of it being in the back nagged at me to get it, open up the bag and pull the new computer from box to fiddle, fiddle, fiddle with my new device.  I could not believe how childish my thoughts were. It was beginning to annoy me with myself.  It reminds me of a child that knew his mommy bought him a gift for Christmas but he could not have it, see it or play with it yet.
            Yea finally, here he comes with a grocery cart full of groceries.  When he arrived to the truck I told him, “We don’t need all that stuff and why did you get it?”  He said, “It’s my birthday present to me.”  I felt like he slapped me in the face because I forgot his birthday was in three days.  I thought to myself, “Just wonderful!  Way to go bozo!  You forgot your own husband’s birthday, cheez that is what he is supposed to do; forget your birthday.”  Then, I thought, “Just great, where are we going to put that crap.”
           We arrived home, unloaded the truck and while the roommate and him are unloading the groceries and putting them up who knows where as I go outside to feed our pets.  Still irritated at my thoughts about the new little computer and wanting so much to open it and fiddle, fiddle, fiddle.
            Finally, I get to into the bedroom, yea! I’m excited because I get to fiddle, fiddle, and fiddle with my new little computer.  How exciting! I am happy as I rip the double bags apart to get to the box. Of course, I do it slowly because I do not want to be too childlike about it.  I noticed that the tape was cut. I did not think much of it and blew it off while I was opening the lid.  I see the keyboard, a white little bag underneath, a little plug, and a usb string/cord.  No tablet.  I lifted up the plastic thing that was holding the keyboard, the plug, the usb cord and the little pamphlets and proceed to pull it out of the box.  Still no tablet.  My first reaction was I gasped in disbelief.  I looked around on the bed thinking I opened it faster than what I was thinking and perhaps it might have slid onto the bed.  Nothing.  I picked the box up and looked underneath.  Nothing.  I started panicking, lifting up the other bags. Nothing.  By this time, I was freaking out.  I yelled, “Where is the tablet?”  I told my husband, “The tablet is not in here!”  He replies, “Are you sure?”  I wanted to smack him because I was outraged that the tablet was not in the box and he had the audacity to ask such a question as that.  He is a quick thinker.  He seen the horror on my face.  He said, “Call them.”  So, I grabbed the phone and called the Walmart at 8700 N. Highway 146 in Baytown, TX.  By the way, this is the new Walmart Supercenter in Mont Belvieu, TX at FM 146 and I-10 East Freeway, just so you will know.
            I called Walmart, some woman answered, she put me on hold.  It seemed like forever in those few minutes, so I told my husband, “We are leaving and we are going back up there right now!” I could see the frustration in my husband’s face.  He did not want to go. He was tired and just wanted to go to bed.  I was going no matter what.  That Walmart Supercenter did me wrong, I wanted my tablet that went with the keyboard and I was going to get that tablet that some Walmart Employee or whoever else has access to the computers had taken.  I was ticked, ticked and ticked at Walmart. $409.32 is a lot of money.
            I arrived there, show them their mistake and asked for either an exchange or a refund of my money.  They called the night manager up to the customer service. He came, he looked at the box and did not open it at first.  The first question out of his mouth after we told him what had transpired was, “Who did you talk to over the phone about this.”  Before I could say anything at all, my husband retorts, “It doesn’t matter who we have talked to, there is a missing part and we want it. We paid for it.”  The night manager said that he was going to go to the back and see if this was a display. I already knew it was not because the display was locked to the counter top it was on.  But before I could say anything, he walked off to the back of the store. 
            We waited.  He finally came but with nothing in his hands and he brought another Walmart supervisor or manager with him.  That is when the night manager informed us, that he could not refund it nor could he replace it. And his little female assistant, or whatever she was said, “Why didn't you check to see if everything was in the box before you left.  I was dumbfounded by that question and did not know what to say that because when I bought the big laptop I have at the Liberty, TX Walmart store, I asked if I could look at that before I purchased it and the manager on staff there told me no because they are not allowed to open the sealed tabbed boxes.  So, that is why I never even thought to ask.  The Walmart employee that assisted me did not check the box as far as I can recollect. He had to have known the box was open unless he was just as obliviously to paying attention to it as I was.  I don’t know, but what I do know is that I was just excited about getting it. The night manager and his little female assistant, maybe she was a customer service manager, who knows and who cares, I know I don’t, all I know is I was very angry at the both of them and how they were handling the situation.  Jerks!
            To add to my anger they had informed me in round about ways without plainly saying it in exact words, that we stole my tablet out of the box.  I was so angered by their insinuating comments. My one thought was to punch them each in the face.  Which, the thought was actually surprising to me. Too bad I did not but I am glad I did not because that would have wrong and that would have never justified their means of wrong doing.  As I have always heard, “Two wrongs do not make a right.”
            My husband started yelling at the night manager and I got upset too.  But the night manager insisted that I would not give my money back or give a replacement of any kind.  I told him, “Your store just stole from me.  If someone came in and stole $409.32 worth of merchandise from this store they would go to jail. Am I right?”  He did not answer me.  I felt the heat of anger rising within me.  I started yelling telling all the customers what Walmart did to me, how they sold me the box with only a keyboard for $409.32 without the tablet that was supposed to go with it and to be aware of Walmart’s business practices. They are not being honest people.  I was so angry.  I saw the other supervisor, or whatever he is, telling them to get security.  I told him, “Good call the police, I want them to come.  Your store stole from me and I want what I paid for.”
            The manager, supervisor and a few other employees followed us all the way to the door. The night manager and the other supervisor were telling me to leave the store.  I felt all they did was encourage theft at Walmart.  I consider them apart of the theft and I consider them a problem for all the future Walmart Shoppers.
            Of all days, I would forget my cell phone.  Even walking out to the truck I was telling all the people coming in what that Walmart did to me.  This has become personal and financial! I used another customer’s cell phone to call the police to report the theft of Walmart.  The dispatcher said she would send someone out there in a little bit, asked for my description and then hung up.  We waited until 11:15 p.m. No police showed up. I left and went to the police station and told them I wanted to report a theft that Walmart had done against me.  The officer behind the counter said that I could not do that because this was a civil matter and she gave me the number of a Judge.  I thought, “Wow, what good will come from that?”
            I went home and started repacking and rebagging everything we had bought Monday and Tuesday at Walmart Supercenter and I was bound and determined to send everything back and get my money and I loaded it all back into the truck.  I posted the nights events of Walmart on Facebook and now I am blogging it. I will tweet and whatever else it takes to get the message of warning to all potential shoppers of Walmart.  I want to protect these people, to help them avoid being done wrong too.
            It is amazing to me how some businesses can get away with theft and label it, “Corporate Business” I am anger by this and I do not understand this concept.  Would someone care to explain that concept to me?  Now, if someone steals from a store, they go directly to jail or prison and they should.  Why is it when business’ steal from their customers, it is all of a sudden justified as righteous, or they say, “That’s just business.”  Explain this to me please. Help me to understand the wrongs in that type of thinking and actions.  Someone broaden my mind upon that type of ramification, please.

 November 5, 2014

            Right after my English Composition II class (9:15 A.M.) my husband and I leave the college and go immediately to Walmart with everything including the box with the keyboard, little plug and the usb string/cord in tow.  I told my husband that if they make this right, then I will not demand a refund on all this stuff I will gladly take it all back home.
            We arrive there probably about 9:30 or 9:45 a.m., get out of our truck, unload all those bags full of items into two baskets over flowing, marched into the Walmart to the Customer Service Center and reiterated everything from last night.  The customer service lady was going to give us a refund and I thought, “Finally, someone is going to make this right.” until that night manager’s little assistant/customer service manager showed up at the counter. She flat out told us that we were not getting our money back and there was nothing that Walmart could do.  I told her, “Well then, we want our money back on all this stuff, now!”  She said, “Fine waved her hand and walked to the other counter across from that counter.”  I so wanted to punch her.   Maybe she thought she was doing her job.  Maybe this is the new way of how Walmart now does business.  Whether it is or not.  I will not be shopping at Walmart from now on.  Never again.  They are horrible people, (now, that is not to speak for all of them.  I'm speaking Walmart as a whole meaning the kinds of people like these night managers and the store manager are). 

            I called corporate 3 times and they have transferred me to their “Priority Line”.  They refuse to let me speak to the CEO, the President or anyone higher up.  They are not allowed to patch us through.  The third time I called the lady gave me the General Managers and the Regional Manager’s names but not their numbers.  Gee, how helpful.  All they told me was I would have to wait for the manager of the store to call me in two or three day.  There was some window of a 24 – 48 hour wait period to go through the proper “Chain of command.”  What a crock!  Their “Chain of Command” is not doing anything about it.  The store sure did not waste time in taking my money from me.  $409.32 I lost, wasted away, gave away to Walmart Supercenter unbeknownst to me until the moment I realize they made a fool and mockery out of me.  Part of me wants to see that the night manager, the other supervisor/manager, the night manager’s little female assistant or customer service manager or whatever she is, and all the other employees that helped walk us to the door get fired.  That is how angry I am.
            Well today, there was something good that came out of all this mess, but not through that Walmart’s Hands, of course.  I want you all to know that we went to Office Depot and bought the same computers that we had returned to Walmart for $200.00 less each. WOW!! What a bargain. That was amazing.  We shared our Walmart story of experience with Office Depot.  That is where we should have went in the first place because none of what happened at Walmart would have happened.  But what is done is done and Walmart won’t even blink to try to rectify the damage done.
            I did send a report to the manufacturer of the computer and asked the technicians if they could put a trace on the tablet. I hope they can because I want to catch the thief and I want to file charges on them and Walmart for wrongful acts, for mental anguish, loss of money and to me it’s a lot of money.  I know with Walmart it’s just a little tiny speck of a drop of money in the bucket to them).  I really hope the manufacture can help me with this by tracking the culprit down.
            My shopping will be done elsewhere from here on out.  I learned a very, very expensive lesson, it was a $409.32 lesson which really eats at me right now.  But I know that I know, what they sow, they shall reap.  I called it the “Boomerang effect”, what they do to their customers, whether current or previous will come back and bite them, if it is bad, or bless them if it is good sooner or later.
November 6, 2014
            Today I was sick, throwing up (3 times today so far) and miserable.  I had an intern job interview I went to.  My day was not good it took 45 minutes to find a parking spot in Downtown, Houston, TX.  I cried.  My nerves are so shot.  Maybe I will get the intern job.  I really need the good news right now. 
Still no phone call received from Walmart Supercenter’s manager, and no phone call from the corporate office.  I definitely have the distinct impression that Walmart could care less who they do wrong to.  I am now thinking maybe they think they are above the law because they are so big.  I really don’t know what to think about them.  I know I will not stop here. It will fight to get my money back or the rest of the little computer.
            Something a little good came out of this.   We went to Kroger’s to get me some Campbell’s Chicken Noodle soup this evening after I got off work from the college. And we saw a news channel vehicle in the parking lot of Kroger’s near the street. My husband gets out of the truck, goes to this news Channel vehicle and taps on the window.  My husband informed them as to what Walmart Supercenter did to me.  The man in the vehicle who was dressed in a long sleeve colored blue shirt with a tie and nice men’s dark dress pants and nice dark shoes, well groomed too (the man had opened the vehicle door that is how I know what he looked like and what he was wearing), informed my husband that we need to go back to the police station in Baytown and get a report filed because regardless what that night officer said that was behind the window, the police cannot deny me the right to file a police report and get a copy of it and then send the report to him because he would love to make that report on Walmart.  Tomorrow that is exactly what I intend to do.
Until tomorrow, Goodnight.

November 7, 2014


Hello Blog readers, the Walmart manager gave me my refund yesterday.  He told my husband that this was the first he has heard of it.  It makes me angry because we went up there twice, to try to get it our money back or the rest of the merchandise that belonged in the ASUS box, called corporate headquarters 3 times and all I got was, they had to go through some chain of command and that the manager would call me in a day or so.  NO one called.  It took my husband to make the initiative again and call on Friday and that is when the Manager there said that was the first he heard about it and he told my husband to bring it back along with the receipt and the receipt from Office Depot showing that we bought another little computer just like it elsewhere.  We did that but he never asked us when we got there for the Office Depot receipt.  He just looked at the customer service lady and told her, "Give them their money back."  Even though the store manager (not the night manager) rectified it and made it right,  I know one thing, I will NEVER shop at Walmart again.  The end. 

June 20, 2015
To this day, I still do not shop at Walmart. I have no desires to go there. I shop elsewhere. I enjoy the regular and real grocery stores near my community (12 miles from my home one way and the other way 16 miles from my home).  A Dollar general or family dollar, whichever, had just built and opened up shop 6 or 7 miles from my home. Which, by the way it has become my husband's favorite place to shop. My husband will go to Walmart to get his medicine, if and when I need medicine I go elsewhere. 
Walmart will stay forever on my blacklist. And with their recent tales of untruth as to the reasons of their closing of five of their stores ensures my reasons for not going back to Walmart. They can't even tell the truth as to their closing the first time. The truth did come out but, only after the untruth. Will Walmart ever learn? I doubt it. They are nothing but a shame in my eyes. And their untruths are "Business as usual" for them.  
Have a great day. 



Sunday, October 26, 2014

The Minimum Wage War that Rages within America.

The Minimum wage war that rages within America.
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The cries, the demands and the whines of those who seem to think the government should raise the minimum wage up to $10.00 or $15.00 an hour have not really pondered, researched, or analyzed the end results of that. Just what do they think is going to happen?  Hmm?
First of all, the fact remains of the cost of living will go up even higher than it is now to accommodate that hike in wages.  Common sense should tell these people that.  Then guess what, all those will be in the same complaining state that they are in right now.  What will change? Absolutely nothing for anyone with the exception of the prices of commodities and taxes (does America need more taxes?) will keeping going even higher than it was before the complaining of minimum wage.  It really is a no brainer to figure all this out.
Second, it will have a ricocheting effect on businesses, which by the way, will be devastating to all because, think about it, the price of a loaf of bread has already reach almost $5.00 a loaf (depending on what type of bread you choose to purchase).  Now of course, the ones doing the complaining will probably have their temporal victory, a temporal amount of extra money in their pockets until the hike in prices take effect and it is a guarantee that the price of everything will go up and, of course, that price hike starts chipping away at their so called raise. And they will be right back out in the streets whining, complaining, and murmuring about their minimum wage, yet again. 
Then,  there is the stupidity of the thought of even the consideration of that thought to raise minimum wage at such a higher dollar amount is ridiculous in itself because of that ricocheting reaction of terrible events that will happen to the American people financially.  It just does not affect minimum wage earners, it affects every single American citizen in the United States of America and not in a pleasant way either.
Minimum wage jobs were created for the teenagers and young adults as part time jobs while in high school to teach them about earning money and working for a living or college to supplement their fees, book cost, room and board (if they live on campus), and whatever else they may need while attending college earning their education for a better future for themselves.  It was not meant to be made a career out of.  It is a stepping stone until they have graduated from college and out into the workforce and it is also there for those people who are in-between jobs while they search and hope for better work to come along. It is not a job to make a career out of.
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The mentality level of that kind of thinking is basically on the same level of thinking as those who seem to think that the world owes them something.  There is a phrase that has been said, “Render unto Caesar what is Caesars’ and unto God what is Gods’". In other words, no one owes anyone anything except for what is required of them by law and by morals.
America is being oppressed but by its very own people who seems to think they deserve more than what they are qualified for.  There is a saying going around on many of the college campuses regarding this subject of minimum wage earners.  Basically everyone, so far, that has heard it agrees with that saying. Now, of course,  there may be some that do not agree with it, but it goes something like this, “If they [minimum wage earners] want higher pay and more money they too need to go to college and get an education like the rest of us.”  It is not right that those who did get the education they needed or even those who enlisted in the armed forces (can’t forget them because they put their lives on the line for this country) to have to make the same level of pay as a minimum wage earner who does not have a degree.  If they want higher wages then they need to go get the education for themselves to earn that better pay.
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Finally, while those people are fighting to raise minimum wage, think of its impact on America’s future finances because that is exactly what will be impacted the hardest and it will happen.  It is guaranteed to happen.  Do the research and see what the price of bread, candy, milk, and other commodities are.  Do not be deceived thinking prices will go down because that is not what is going to happen unless someone can get this debt ceiling back down and America’s financial checkbook in balance again.
To conclude, a minimum wage hike is the last thing America needs right now because it will have a terrible , devastating, and  ricocheting effect in so many areas in the American financial status. This is not a board game of life to play with, it is real life that needs to be addressed and handled in a responsible, mature, and careful manner that teaches the righteousness of handling money and earning money properly because so many do not know how to handle their money in a righteous manner as they should for their own well-being. 
It seems backwards, messed up and Americans who love America needs to rescue America from allowing the wage hike to go through because right now is not the time for it to happen. America is deep in debt enough, it does not need to go any deeper because if it does, America will drown.  Those who want the minimum wage hike are playing with fire but, it won’t be just them that will get burned, everyone will feel it.

Last of all, if these people who are causing so much ruckus to get the minimum wage raised to their desire then, once again, America, in the long run, is going to feel the effects of that minimum wage hike including those who are the very ones fighting for the hike and it will not be pleasant experience for anyone.  Nothing will have changed except, the prices and taxes because those will have gone up to accommodate the wage hike, no one wins.

Saturday, October 25, 2014

My blog on Identity in a Virtual World by Michelle Jana Chan

My blog on Identity in a Virtual World by Michelle Jana Chan
Is this the new escape for many from the real world problems?
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The Virtual World is an imaginary world that many people from the real world feel the need to escape to.  It somehow releases them from the everyday pressures of real world life. Why? Maybe those people are not happy with who and what they are so, they result to a place where they are in more control.  Of what exactly are they in control of one might ask?  Well, it has to be only one thing.   In their imaginary world who they could possibly be in their real world.
When in that virtual world they may feel they have the power to say anything they want to say, be as bold as they want to be and unfortunately for some, be as sick in the mind as they choose to be and that is pretty scary.  Michelle Jana Chana mentions in her article, “Nick Yee who studies virtual reality at Stanford University, California, and says he can be scared or sickened by what he sees in the online world…That’s what really fascinates me about these worlds. They trap us even more.”  If that is truth then there is a reason to be scared or sickened by what is seen in the online world.
It is a world for those who have the need to be in control of something in their lives whether it be for the fun of it or to escape and be that powerful person, even if it is not real.  They get their release of pressure while no one will ever know who they are and somehow in some way are able to function respectively in the real world. Strange isn't it, but yet it is that way for many out there.
Also, it might be for some people that their social life is not on any type of level respectively, because they do not know how to carry on a conversion with people. They lack confidence in what they have to say.  Maybe it’s because some people are so bullheaded it dampens their social life to a bare minimum causing the people in their real life to not want to socialize with them, this is understandable.  These are the know-it-all's probably.  Not very many people want to hang out with people like that.  So as strange and foreign as it may seem for many, that is where the virtual world is the escape from reality and releases the pressure of the every day life which let's the individual pretend to be whom they wish were able to be, without having to give their true identity sparing them the embarrassment from the people in their real world.
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Friday, October 17, 2014

My Blog on Kate Chopin's "The Storm"

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My blog on Kate Chopin's "The Storm"

This storm was two storms in rolled up in one.  The physical storm of the wind, rain and clapping thunder and also the flesh arousing in the storm of adulterous temptation when two people that were once in a relationship find themselves alone together. It creates, as always, one big no-no.  It doesn’t matter how innocent it may start out or how much each one tries to convince themselves that they are in control of the situation while within themselves the storm of lust is raging on just as bad as the weather’s storm outside.
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Truly two old flames flickering and tiptoe dancing around each other, alone together and all it takes is one spark to ignite into a huge fire storm. The storm could have caused so much danger that could have had a domino effect and destroy everything in its path.   Imagine two storms raging at the same time, that's double for the trouble one finds them self in, pretty scary.
It is sickening to know and realize how easy a storm can hit and destroy so many lives at once whether it is a weather’s physical storm or, like in this story, the storm of lust.  People should not chance either kind of storm like M'sieur Alcee and Calixta had done in this story.  It was treading upon dangerous territory.  

English Composition II Blog on "The Birthmark"

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My blog on The Birthmark by Nathaniel Hawthorne

To allow someone to make oneself feel less than a person is not the kind of person to spend time with.  Georgiana wanted nothing but for her husband to look on to her with as much love as she did for him.  She knew he loved her, he knew she was a beautiful woman according to the story on page 1021. And she loved him just as dearly.
The crimson hand of a birthmark was odd, this is truth.  It was bright and stood out to the point that it must have frightened or, maybe, freaked her husband out for some reason.  She, on the other hand, was used to it because she mentioned it was "called a charm".  Probably as she grew up family consider the charm somewhat of a good luck.  But unfortunately because it horrified her husband, Aylmer, it also horrified her in return.
For someone to love, trust and respect someone enough to drink some deadly potion or actually poison, is just as weird as the crimson hand birthmark itself. Because he was horrified by the looks of it, it was wearing her down. It is terrible that a person can make another person feel that uncomfortable about their appearance that they are willing to risk their own lives to get rid of what someone else considers a flaw in appearance or beauty.
It is terribly that some people will actually go to deadly and extreme lengths to satisfy someone else's view of their appearance. It is wrong for people to do that to each other because in the end, just like Georgiana, they too could died.  Is it really worth living up to someone else opinion of how one should look.  The hope of helping his dear wife with what Aylmer deemed as a success, as short and temporal as that success was and his victory, in actuality, turned out to be his very own living nightmare because his beautiful wife with the "charmed" crimson hand shaped birthmark had died at his very own hands.  Such a shame. 
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No one should allow anyone to make them feel less of a person because of something someone else considers a flaw on them doesn't meet up to that other person’s standard of how they should look.

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

My Response to Daniel Akst's America: Land of Loners?


Responding to the Writer
America: Land of Loners? By Daniel Akst



To disagree but to agree is what I would have to do with Mr. Daniel Akst's theory of the male relationship.  Men can have best friendships just as well as women can with no problems.  Now, if they do have a problem with it or they are in fear of being viewed as being a homosexual just because they are best friends with other male genders then, it only goes to show that they have insecurity issues within themselves that need to be addressed.

Having a best friend as a man has absolutely nothing to do with being a homosexual or much less capable of holding that type of relationship than a woman.  Everyone has friends. There are  many men in general that want a hunting, fishing, or sporting buddy that do less talking because, let's face it, a lot of women are talkers by nature. Men are just built that way and this Mr. Daniel Akst needs to address this.  It does not mean they are less capable of having a close relationship nor does it means they think people will think weird of them.  Men are logical, thinkers, and leaders.  Their makeup is geared that way on purpose.  It is not to say that women are not logical, thinkers or leaders because they are all that.  But keep in mind, that most women are designed to be more sympathetic, more mothering, more charismatic more understanding and possibly even more reasonable in their thinking than what many men are.

For men to hold close friendship’s like women do is very possible but, the down fall of it is that most men are not (until once they pass over the age of 40) because they are not even as emotional as women are.  Women on the other hand, yes, are emotional creatures that are also naturally creative which brings in the beauty of organization. It’s natural for them.  Do you ever see a man rearranging the furniture in a house as often as a women does? My point exactly. Men bring the order in while women get it organized.

Men do the high five hooping thing, and do what men do to congratulate one another.  Women like pretties and nice party gatherings to dress up, to be pretty and talk about things.  While on the other hand, men are just as content in a bar or the garage of their home.  They celebrate, get loud, talk about guns, cars, sports and the crap that is going on in the world for example: “Kill the enemy, yeah!” Most women want to fix the problem without the bloodshed and would like to talk things out or just have their best friends over to talk about a solution in how to fix the problem in a peaceful manner.  Men are action creatures and gather together with friends of action. Women are the caretakers. They want to fix it, mend it, help it, nurture it, make it blossom into something good and upright (remember now, most women that is.).
Most women know their boundaries as well as men do when it comes to relationships with their friends.  Women are more able to adapt to change, when it comes to being independent.  For most women (and this includes the married and unmarried) they are basically the ones that run the household and hold the fort down in an organized, fashionable and acceptable manner. And also for the most part, are the ones to keep up with the cleaning of the home, the kids, the dogs, the bills, the laundry etcetera, more so than what a man is willing and or wanting to do. It just comes naturally for the women. Many men are slobs by nature and many are not.  So does a woman forming a close relationship with another woman mean more than that? No.  So let’s just stop stereo typing the male gender and take it for what it is. Men have close friends and they are allowed to.

Men do not have to be gay to have a close and best friend type of relationship with another guy.  That is just some ding-dongs' messed up notion that was spread around and somehow ridiculously accepted.  The reality of it is, men are just as capable as women are of forming strictly platonic relationships, as best friends, with other men and it not mean anything more than that. So I disagree and agree with Mr. Daniel Akst on his theories of men forming close friendships with other men.

Response to Andrew Lam's Globalization vs America


Responding to the Topic 

Globalization vs. America
Writing Prompt Essay 

            I do not consider myself a citizen of the world because then I would have to identify myself with some morbid, hateful and evil individuals or groups.  I am an individual citizen of a section of the United States of America called Texas.  Although I could call myself a Texan because I have lived, the vast majority of my life, in the state of Texas and also am familiar with the sections of Texas I have lived in but, that does not constitute me as a true dip spitting, gun-shooting, boot-scooting Texan.  I just migrated here with my parents, who migrated here, whom their parents migrated here and so on up to my great-great grandparents. I am an individual who resides in Texas, which is in the United States, which happens to be a section of the world. 

My culture is what I have made it.  It is a mixture of a background and a backdrop of different cities and different states. I have grew up with mostly three major races in my life along with a few other races.  We were not taught on the different cultures or races.  My generation does not look at the color of a person’s skin.We had always treated each other equal. We founded our own culture that was basically a mix of those few races.  It is not like it is today, out of control. We learned to respect others regardless of where they came from as long as they lived peaceable and respectable lifestyles.  We minded our own business and did not meddle in the affairs of others.  There was always this boundary line of privacy we dared not cross.  It was called mutual respect.  What went on in someone else’s home was their own business but on the same token, we all looked out for one another too.

The culture today is basically no culture.  It’s a ‘do as you please, whatever makes you happy’ kind of culture.  Tradition has, for the most part, been flushed down the toilet along with morals and values.  There possibly are more loafers than there are social barriers. It’s just not the same now.